1 thought on “How can children add online games, how can children restore the state of self -confidence and sunshine?”
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Many parents, when they see children playing games, they are scolding or even beating. This will not only let the child quit Internet addiction, but the child has a rebellious psychology, and more and more uses the Internet to vent his emotions. In fact, if you find that your child is addicted to online games, parents must first understand the reason.
It, research shows that most of the children's addiction to the game is because the actual world is too stressful. He needs to find a trace of peaceful sky in the virtual world. A way of force.
So if parents can talk to their children often, understand whether the child is stress, and what is the source of stress. This is also a process of helping children relax and relieve stress. In the process, you can also discuss other ways to relax your mind and mind with your children, such as exercise, playing, traveling, etc., maybe children will not only know that the pressure is released by the game.
It, children can get a lot of rewards and sense of accomplishment from the game. In real life, many parents rarely encourage their children, such as the time for children to play games. If the child does not do it, parents are not scolding and scolding. These are punishment. Punishment will only deteriorate parent -child relationship. Therefore, after formulating rules, if the child abides by the rules or achieves the goal, it must be rewarded in time.
Third, the child is looking for a sense of belonging in the game. Many parents are busy at work and throw their children at home. The child lacks a social environment. In the game, communicate with your same age partners and play games together. Children will have a sense of collective belonging. Such as a sense of accomplishment, collective sense, fun, etc. If there is a lack of family, children will find it from the game because it is easy to find in the game. Therefore, parents usually provide more fun things outside the game to make children feel the joy of the world and the joy of life. If there are more interesting things that attract him more interesting than the game, then the child will gradually gradually be gradually. Dilute the feeling of the game. In addition, if you are busy, you have to spend more time with your children.
Finally, parents must reflect frequently in the face of children's growth, and the role of parents is also important. If the parents themselves are "game fans", it is difficult to realize that it is difficult for children not to indulge in it. So, do a good job of the example of parents!
"Welcome everyone to follow me and communicate with me ~"
The understanding of parents' anxiety, anxiety, anxiety, but helpless state.
But still to say that children who are addicted to online games must have a bad family model and strong conflict parent -child relationship. The obsessed with the Internet is a kind of escape from the real world.
. Although it is not very friendly, there is a high probability that the entire family (rather than the children alone) together has led to the child's willingness to stay in the virtual world. And unwilling to return to the real world.
The child to restore the previous self -confidence and sunny sun, please first make the atmosphere of the entire family sunny. If the relationship between husband and wife is extremely bad, deal with the relationship between husband and wife first. If it is only particularly nervous about parent -child relationships, please change the inherent character settings and let go of the obsession of "parents are eternal".
The child grows up slowly. Parents should gradually convert from protectors and instructors into proposals. Chatting with children should be more treated with equal communication, rather than guiding and criticism at all times.
If is willing to adjust and change the parents and children together, then the child's change will be great. And if the parents are always right and the only thing to change is the child, then the relationship will become worse.
again emphasized that the children who indulge the Internet are evading reality. So in the end, he is escaping him a reality. If the reality is changed to sunny, does the child still need to escape?
This writing two related articles, analyzing the reasons and how the family responded from a psychological perspective, and pay attention to me in the future. But always remember that good parent -child relationship is the prerequisite for discipline, otherwise no way of use.
The national second -level psychological counselor of "Parenting Practice Psychology". Psychoanalysis is both parenting and personality appreciation.
not only when children are obsessed with online games, they will not communicate with others, do not go out of the door, do not eat or sleep, and other phenomena. When adults are obsessed with online games, they will also happen.
Is when this happens, it means that this online game is very attractive to children. In online games, children get the sense of satisfaction and accomplishment that they cannot get in reality.
So how do you not be interested in online games? The simplest and most direct way is that children have a sense of frustration in online games, and they feel monotonous about the game. The online games are all RMB players who can get enough sense of satisfaction and achievement. Ordinary players are basically not recharged. Whether equipment or experience is not as good as RMB players, and there is not much sense of accomplishment. Therefore, it is very important to resolutely prevent children from recharging online games. Basically, there is no recharge online game, even if you are addicted for too long.
The time to control children to play games. This is basically difficult when the child is obsessed with this game. If it is tough, it will cause the child's resentment. For mobile games, it is best to set the children's mode on the mobile phone, or set the mobile phone to discuss with the child, and try to gradually shorten the time as much as possible.
If parents can arrange outdoor activities or parent -child activities that children are interested in to attract children's attention, such as the long -awaited wild zoo one -day tour, Disneyland, seaside tourism, and so on.
I is Han Bao Feixiang, a family has one of Hanbao. I share a picture book and parenting experience daily. Welcome to follow. What are the tricks for children to be obsessed with online games? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area. It now there are very many children, addicted to online games. I have a sister. Her child is playing with her mobile phone and playing very well. Even when you call, you must continue to play games, let alone night.
It to make children not be so addicted to the game, you need to do the following aspects:
1. I found that most of the children who were addicted to the game were too busy with their parents and had no time to worry about their children.
The children do not have any constraints when playing games, and also have less interaction with her parents. Only games can accompany her to satisfy her.
The parents should take out more time, take their children out for a walk, kick the ball, and take a look at nature together.
2. [Formation of rules for your child]
. As the saying goes, "There is no rule, not square." For children who are addicted to games, we need to formulate rules for children. For example, when we can only play half an hour every night from Monday to Friday, you can play two hours a day on Saturday and Sunday. The rules are formulated, and the children will agree in the future and sign it. If he disagrees, then you have the power to confiscate your phone or break the network. 3. [Reading more with children]
The best education is to speak. Only our parents do the example can children be well affected. When the child is away from online games, we must not play with their mobile phones all day, and we need parents to read more books.
The here is a dare to travel for youth experience for youth game experience.
This children are easy to go astray because of their very young age and lack of clearly discerning right and wrong.
The children can easily add to them once they come into contact with the game, which will have a great impact on their growth.
Mades should take their children to play outside, let the children get out of the game of the game, and feel the beauty brought by the real world. In more to play outside
Playing is the nature of each child. Parents should spend more time to accompany their children.
For example, parents can take their children to the outing and take their children to the amusement park, which can release the child's nature.
The child can become more cheerful by playing. Slowly, they can easily get out of the world of the game. The new hobby
Parents can help children cultivate new hobbies, which will help children to divert attention.
Is when the child has a new interest point, he will put all his energy on it. Over time, they will no longer add to the game. Pucting game time
The game is a double -edged sword. It has benefits and certain disadvantages. Children's willpower is often weak and easy to add to the game. Parents must help their children plan the time of time. For example, they can only play games for one hour a day and use the game as a reward mechanism.
Many parents, when they see children playing games, they are scolding or even beating. This will not only let the child quit Internet addiction, but the child has a rebellious psychology, and more and more uses the Internet to vent his emotions. In fact, if you find that your child is addicted to online games, parents must first understand the reason.
It, research shows that most of the children's addiction to the game is because the actual world is too stressful. He needs to find a trace of peaceful sky in the virtual world. A way of force.
So if parents can talk to their children often, understand whether the child is stress, and what is the source of stress. This is also a process of helping children relax and relieve stress. In the process, you can also discuss other ways to relax your mind and mind with your children, such as exercise, playing, traveling, etc., maybe children will not only know that the pressure is released by the game.
It, children can get a lot of rewards and sense of accomplishment from the game. In real life, many parents rarely encourage their children, such as the time for children to play games. If the child does not do it, parents are not scolding and scolding. These are punishment. Punishment will only deteriorate parent -child relationship. Therefore, after formulating rules, if the child abides by the rules or achieves the goal, it must be rewarded in time.
Third, the child is looking for a sense of belonging in the game. Many parents are busy at work and throw their children at home. The child lacks a social environment. In the game, communicate with your same age partners and play games together. Children will have a sense of collective belonging. Such as a sense of accomplishment, collective sense, fun, etc. If there is a lack of family, children will find it from the game because it is easy to find in the game. Therefore, parents usually provide more fun things outside the game to make children feel the joy of the world and the joy of life. If there are more interesting things that attract him more interesting than the game, then the child will gradually gradually be gradually. Dilute the feeling of the game. In addition, if you are busy, you have to spend more time with your children.
Finally, parents must reflect frequently in the face of children's growth, and the role of parents is also important. If the parents themselves are "game fans", it is difficult to realize that it is difficult for children not to indulge in it. So, do a good job of the example of parents!
"Welcome everyone to follow me and communicate with me ~"
The understanding of parents' anxiety, anxiety, anxiety, but helpless state.
But still to say that children who are addicted to online games must have a bad family model and strong conflict parent -child relationship. The obsessed with the Internet is a kind of escape from the real world.
. Although it is not very friendly, there is a high probability that the entire family (rather than the children alone) together has led to the child's willingness to stay in the virtual world. And unwilling to return to the real world.
The child to restore the previous self -confidence and sunny sun, please first make the atmosphere of the entire family sunny. If the relationship between husband and wife is extremely bad, deal with the relationship between husband and wife first. If it is only particularly nervous about parent -child relationships, please change the inherent character settings and let go of the obsession of "parents are eternal".
The child grows up slowly. Parents should gradually convert from protectors and instructors into proposals. Chatting with children should be more treated with equal communication, rather than guiding and criticism at all times.
If is willing to adjust and change the parents and children together, then the child's change will be great. And if the parents are always right and the only thing to change is the child, then the relationship will become worse.
again emphasized that the children who indulge the Internet are evading reality. So in the end, he is escaping him a reality. If the reality is changed to sunny, does the child still need to escape?
This writing two related articles, analyzing the reasons and how the family responded from a psychological perspective, and pay attention to me in the future. But always remember that good parent -child relationship is the prerequisite for discipline, otherwise no way of use.
The national second -level psychological counselor of "Parenting Practice Psychology". Psychoanalysis is both parenting and personality appreciation.
not only when children are obsessed with online games, they will not communicate with others, do not go out of the door, do not eat or sleep, and other phenomena. When adults are obsessed with online games, they will also happen.
Is when this happens, it means that this online game is very attractive to children. In online games, children get the sense of satisfaction and accomplishment that they cannot get in reality.
So how do you not be interested in online games? The simplest and most direct way is that children have a sense of frustration in online games, and they feel monotonous about the game.
The online games are all RMB players who can get enough sense of satisfaction and achievement. Ordinary players are basically not recharged. Whether equipment or experience is not as good as RMB players, and there is not much sense of accomplishment. Therefore, it is very important to resolutely prevent children from recharging online games. Basically, there is no recharge online game, even if you are addicted for too long.
The time to control children to play games. This is basically difficult when the child is obsessed with this game. If it is tough, it will cause the child's resentment. For mobile games, it is best to set the children's mode on the mobile phone, or set the mobile phone to discuss with the child, and try to gradually shorten the time as much as possible.
If parents can arrange outdoor activities or parent -child activities that children are interested in to attract children's attention, such as the long -awaited wild zoo one -day tour, Disneyland, seaside tourism, and so on.
I is Han Bao Feixiang, a family has one of Hanbao. I share a picture book and parenting experience daily. Welcome to follow. What are the tricks for children to be obsessed with online games? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area.
It now there are very many children, addicted to online games. I have a sister. Her child is playing with her mobile phone and playing very well. Even when you call, you must continue to play games, let alone night.
It to make children not be so addicted to the game, you need to do the following aspects:
1. I found that most of the children who were addicted to the game were too busy with their parents and had no time to worry about their children.
The children do not have any constraints when playing games, and also have less interaction with her parents. Only games can accompany her to satisfy her.
The parents should take out more time, take their children out for a walk, kick the ball, and take a look at nature together.
2. [Formation of rules for your child]
. As the saying goes, "There is no rule, not square." For children who are addicted to games, we need to formulate rules for children. For example, when we can only play half an hour every night from Monday to Friday, you can play two hours a day on Saturday and Sunday. The rules are formulated, and the children will agree in the future and sign it. If he disagrees, then you have the power to confiscate your phone or break the network.
3.
[Reading more with children]
The best education is to speak. Only our parents do the example can children be well affected. When the child is away from online games, we must not play with their mobile phones all day, and we need parents to read more books.
The here is a dare to travel for youth experience for youth game experience.
This children are easy to go astray because of their very young age and lack of clearly discerning right and wrong.
The children can easily add to them once they come into contact with the game, which will have a great impact on their growth.
Mades should take their children to play outside, let the children get out of the game of the game, and feel the beauty brought by the real world.
In more to play outside
Playing is the nature of each child. Parents should spend more time to accompany their children.
For example, parents can take their children to the outing and take their children to the amusement park, which can release the child's nature.
The child can become more cheerful by playing. Slowly, they can easily get out of the world of the game.
The new hobby
Parents can help children cultivate new hobbies, which will help children to divert attention.
Is when the child has a new interest point, he will put all his energy on it. Over time, they will no longer add to the game.
Pucting game time
The game is a double -edged sword. It has benefits and certain disadvantages. Children's willpower is often weak and easy to add to the game. Parents must help their children plan the time of time. For example, they can only play games for one hour a day and use the game as a reward mechanism.